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\u63a8\u85a6\u95b1\u8b80\uff1a\u84cb\u745e\u5de7\u9580(Gary Chapman)\u8457\u300a\u611b\u8a9e\u79d8\u7b08\u8207\u65b0\u4e00\u4ee3\u6e9d\u901a\u4e94\u5f0f(The 5 Love Languages of Teenagers)\u300b<\/p>\n\n\n\n